Heinaya, 50

I am seeking real friendship. I always tell you who i really am, whether you accept it or not, because I choose to tell a the truth rather than wear any mask or hide. It is a virtue that I stand for. I need a good, honest person with a big heart, who will make me laugh and happy. I know it is hard to find, but I believe we will encounter someday. To be upfront, I have a hearing problem and I cannot hear nor speak. I know it will be a obstacle to our communication, but I do not consider myself disabled. Whether deaf or hearing, we 're all human beings, just the same as everyone else. There is nothing wrong with being hearing impaired. I believe It will work out if you are willing to learn American Sign Language, because ASL is the main communication tool in my life. Sometimes,I can read lips if you speak slowly. Communication have many different ways, we can find a way that is best for us to communicate. I like to have conversation on a variety of interesting topics and discuss together. It is fun and pleasure. If you are interested, we can become friends and share our different culture. And, I love to hear what you want to say about your life story and experience. If you feel it is inconvenience may cause you because of the barrier of communication , then don't contact me. I just don't want to get hurt when we meet in person and then you change mind. That is why I need to have conversation first.

My parents are well-educated. They know neither I can speak nor hear but they are persevered in educate me to be an honest, respect and pure-heart person. They also put high expectation on me so they are always proud of my excellent study and my ability to handle anything by myself.